How to Have a One-Night Stand? Tips that Actually Work

How to Have a One-Night Stand

People do want to have sex. Sometimes they don’t want to start a relationship. We believe it is perfectly normal. However, though the attitude towards hookup culture and one-night stands is gradually changing, it’s not that easy to find someone who doesn’t mind having some fun, no strings attached. However, it is 2021, and we have some opportunities that we haven’t had before. So, how to have a one-night stand, avoid regrets, feel safe and comfortable, and actually enjoy it? We provide some useful tips below. 

How Can I Have a One-Night Stand? 

How Can I Have a One-Night Stand

People used to meet each other in bars, at parties, etc., like each other, and have some fun. The pandemic has changed it all, but people didn’t stop meeting and having sex. How was it possible? Due to hookup websites, of course.

We can’t deny that when you meet someone in a bar, you can immediately understand if you really like the way a girl or a guy looks. You can talk to her and understand if you want to undress her tonight. However, hookup and sex sites prove to be better than that in plenty of ways, and here are some of them:

  • Your prospective partner is on the site, too, so you know they want the same thing.
  • It’s much easier to make contact, most users feel more confident.
  • You don’t have to lie to anyone.
  • There are live chats, video chats, opportunity to share photos and videos so you can make sure that you want to meet this person IRL. 

Generally speaking, joining a hookup site is the easiest and fastest way to have a one-night stand. However, you should remember the main rules of safe hookup when looking for a partner online. Here are some tips that will help you make your fantasies come true without any regrets or consequences.

  1. Choose a platform carefully. Read reviews, compare the options. 
  2. Pay a lot of attention to safety. Your privacy should be your top priority. Make sure that the site won’t share your personal data or files.
  3. Communicate. Don’t start with something like, “Hey, I live in LA, too, wanna see me tonight?” After all, these are strangers. Talk with a person you’ve just met, make sure they are real and that they don’t want your money, and set up a date. Let it be natural, get a bit closer, use video chat and make sure that you will not regret it.
  4. Don’t send money to anyone. Seriously, just don’t.
  5. Sexy talks are appreciated on such platforms, so don’t hesitate to ask a partner about their preferences and expectations. Make sure it is a match.

It’s pretty much like regular online dating. The only difference is you both know why you are here. Just don’t rush things, choose partners wisely and check them. Here is how you can have a real one-night stand with someone hot easily. 

Do’s And Don’ts of One-Night Stands

Do’s And Don’ts of One-Night Stands

One-night stands can be fun or turn into a nightmare. And a lot depends on you. That’s why we provide these tips—do’s, and don’ts will help you do everything right and enjoy hot sex with your partner.


  • Remember that you are not doing anything wrong.
  • No one is abused, no one is deceived (especially if you met someone on a casual dating site). 
  • Respect your partner’s boundaries and make them respect yours.
  • Make sure that you understand each other before you actually have sex.
  • Use condoms (well, that’s obvious, but still important).
  • You’re going to have a great experience, so relax.


  • Don’t do it if you feel lonely and insecure.
  • Don’t do it if you’re already thinking about your partner all the time.
  • Don’t think that this experience will change something in your life.
  • Don’t be drunk or high.

Final Thoughts

Final Thoughts

Fortunately, having a one-night stand is not the most complicated task in the modern world. And you have the right to have it—there’s nothing wrong with it, especially if you don’t lie to your partner and let them understand what exactly you expect. So, just follow the tips, be safe, and enjoy new experiences! 

Leo Krans
Leo Krans
Chief Editor
Psychologist, founder of, dating expert helping other people to improve their lives - it's all about Leo Krans. His Articles are published worldwide and he is a Chief Editor of HookupBro